Comments on: The New Ways to Say I Hate You http://www.schneidermike.com/socialmedia/the-new-ways-to-say-i-hate-you/79/ a blog about technology and analysis Wed, 25 Aug 2010 22:01:47 -0700 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8 hourly 1 By: joshspyker http://www.schneidermike.com/socialmedia/the-new-ways-to-say-i-hate-you/79/comment-page-1/#comment-2528 joshspyker Fri, 28 Aug 2009 03:13:29 +0000 http://www.themichaelschneider.com/?p=79#comment-2528 Real good article... loved it! Social networking is not really a good way to make friends ..You never know who you're talking to and it has its risks..You can never make true friends on them! Real good article… loved it! Social networking is not really a good way to make friends ..You never know who you're talking to and it has its risks..You can never make true friends on them!

]]> By: online dating http://www.schneidermike.com/socialmedia/the-new-ways-to-say-i-hate-you/79/comment-page-1/#comment-402 online dating Fri, 27 Feb 2009 18:04:19 +0000 http://www.themichaelschneider.com/?p=79#comment-402 Food for thought..Social networking isn't genuine at all! It's just a way to become popular and have many 'friends' in the virtual world since you can't in the real world.In fact communicating with strangers even poses many dangers.True friends can only be found in person:) Food for thought..Social networking isn't genuine at all! It's just a way to become popular and have many 'friends' in the virtual world since you can't in the real world.In fact communicating with strangers even poses many dangers.True friends can only be found in person:)

]]> By: Chelvis http://www.schneidermike.com/socialmedia/the-new-ways-to-say-i-hate-you/79/comment-page-1/#comment-272 Chelvis Thu, 06 Nov 2008 16:55:23 +0000 http://www.themichaelschneider.com/?p=79#comment-272 A newer development is the introduction of the service Qwitter where you get a message when someone unfollows you on Twitter. I must admit, it gives you pause when unfollowing someone in fear that they will know. It will be interesting to see how people will deal with rejection. Like this one for instance: <a href="http://twitter.com/juliaroy/statuses/993791707">http://twitter.com/juliaroy/statuses/993791707</a> A newer development is the introduction of the service Qwitter where you get a message when someone unfollows you on Twitter. I must admit, it gives you pause when unfollowing someone in fear that they will know. It will be interesting to see how people will deal with rejection. Like this one for instance: http://twitter.com/juliaroy/statuses/993791707

]]> By: Dr. Joel Block http://www.schneidermike.com/socialmedia/the-new-ways-to-say-i-hate-you/79/comment-page-1/#comment-267 Dr. Joel Block Sun, 19 Oct 2008 12:41:28 +0000 http://www.themichaelschneider.com/?p=79#comment-267 So, my comments below may not be targeting those above…<br><br>Okay, slam me, I’m a psychologist whose career has been devoted to love and sex, what do I know? For starters…<br><br><br>My forthcoming book The Real Reasons Men Commit (Dec., Adams Media) gets it right (no fluff!). Yeah, I'm shameless, but everyone who has read an advance copy has felt it to be their "bible" for figuring out if he's real or just looking to get down.<br><br>What's more, go to <a href="http://www.ButterfliesAgain">www.ButterfliesAgain</a> and check out an awesome compatibility test--that actually works! Any dating site that uses it can send a couple who meet and marry based on the match to a free Honeymoon--the test developers pay!<br><br>Joel So, my comments below may not be targeting those above…

Okay, slam me, I’m a psychologist whose career has been devoted to love and sex, what do I know? For starters…

My forthcoming book The Real Reasons Men Commit (Dec., Adams Media) gets it right (no fluff!). Yeah, I'm shameless, but everyone who has read an advance copy has felt it to be their “bible” for figuring out if he's real or just looking to get down.

What's more, go to http://www.ButterfliesAgain and check out an awesome compatibility test–that actually works! Any dating site that uses it can send a couple who meet and marry based on the match to a free Honeymoon–the test developers pay!

Joel

]]> By: JV http://www.schneidermike.com/socialmedia/the-new-ways-to-say-i-hate-you/79/comment-page-1/#comment-266 JV Fri, 17 Oct 2008 16:59:30 +0000 http://www.themichaelschneider.com/?p=79#comment-266 I would add (and I am not on facebook) that, sure, it's easy to build your network and make yourself feel like you have lots of friends, but it's SO easy that you end up associating with people who don't really care about you - they just want to look popular. I know the people who I keep in touch with are good friends because we've made a real effort to stay connected, convenient or not. I would add (and I am not on facebook) that, sure, it's easy to build your network and make yourself feel like you have lots of friends, but it's SO easy that you end up associating with people who don't really care about you – they just want to look popular. I know the people who I keep in touch with are good friends because we've made a real effort to stay connected, convenient or not.

]]> By: Joel http://www.schneidermike.com/socialmedia/the-new-ways-to-say-i-hate-you/79/comment-page-1/#comment-265 Joel Fri, 17 Oct 2008 16:54:15 +0000 http://www.themichaelschneider.com/?p=79#comment-265 The wondering part is something that can be dealt with ... the "knowing that someone KNOWS you're out there" but not giving a flying F? Notsomuch.<br><br>You know you've found ex'es on FB but couldn't bring yourself to friend them! Everyone has! Shoot I can barely bring myself to accept friend requests from long-gone acquaintences (just out of sheer weirdness) let alone friend people myself that I was acquainted with The wondering part is something that can be dealt with … the “knowing that someone KNOWS you're out there” but not giving a flying F? Notsomuch.

You know you've found ex'es on FB but couldn't bring yourself to friend them! Everyone has! Shoot I can barely bring myself to accept friend requests from long-gone acquaintences (just out of sheer weirdness) let alone friend people myself that I was acquainted with

]]> By: Chelvis http://www.schneidermike.com/socialmedia/the-new-ways-to-say-i-hate-you/79/comment-page-1/#comment-264 Chelvis Fri, 17 Oct 2008 16:45:57 +0000 http://www.themichaelschneider.com/?p=79#comment-264 Love this article and it brings up a lot of questions regarding social media, social networking, and how it is relevant to the post -30 crowd. <br><br>One of the issues with places like Facebook is the wide range of reasons people join them. Some may only be there for the games, or for the pics, or for the "lil green patch". But no one really knows that as they see pages of "Friends You May Know".<br><br>Sites like LinkedIn do take steps to have people self-select the type of interaction they are interested in. Facebook, not so much.<br><br>One question I have is as people find new ways to say, "I hate you", is that bad? De-friending someone is the best way to tell people I hate you IMHO. It is direct. It doesn't string people along while sending a definite message and avoiding being face to face or voice to voice. Love this article and it brings up a lot of questions regarding social media, social networking, and how it is relevant to the post -30 crowd.

One of the issues with places like Facebook is the wide range of reasons people join them. Some may only be there for the games, or for the pics, or for the “lil green patch”. But no one really knows that as they see pages of “Friends You May Know”.

Sites like LinkedIn do take steps to have people self-select the type of interaction they are interested in. Facebook, not so much.

One question I have is as people find new ways to say, “I hate you”, is that bad? De-friending someone is the best way to tell people I hate you IMHO. It is direct. It doesn't string people along while sending a definite message and avoiding being face to face or voice to voice.

]]> By: Shannon http://www.schneidermike.com/socialmedia/the-new-ways-to-say-i-hate-you/79/comment-page-1/#comment-263 Shannon Fri, 17 Oct 2008 16:14:11 +0000 http://www.themichaelschneider.com/?p=79#comment-263 I guess I'd rather know. Then I don't have to waste a superflous Facebook wall post when their birthday pops up on my alerts. I guess I'd rather know. Then I don't have to waste a superflous Facebook wall post when their birthday pops up on my alerts.

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